Friday, July 16, 2010

Dodged in tough times (part 1)


i. Anticipation two matters

Actually, according to the taught wisdom of our fathers, we need that in anticipation of this life (at least most important) there are two. First, we need to anticipate the coming of replies bad deeds of the individual or as we as a group. Why should be anticipated? Yes. We all know if it's true deeds that bad bad will bring retaliation. Logically, we may not yet marijuana planting rice that which grows.

Cause effect logic, action - is often ignored consequences we do not think so or anticipate the arrival of replies bad that when and how shape. Most people assume that bad consequences of action that will be bad brought in later after we die. We "punished" by the angel whose responsibility is to punish and not to know that there are others. No more bad deeds who argue that it later sins deleted with too can repent and crying in places worship or "run" to religion. God 'kan forgiving.

Frequently happen by living in practice, gets the assumption in the disclaimer of reality often. Consequences of bad deeds it comes unexpected, unpredictable shapes not, and that rather than later in the afterlife. And how often would not his unexpected. When someone to start using drugs syringes, then she also may not think that is the threat also could spread hiv to his wife or his son any threat or death, serious threat for intelligence, and others.

When we used to still tolerant and enjoy cultures bribery, then we may not think that when cultures someday lead to an uncontrollable crisis like this now. All improvement initiative menthok hindered by mentality cultures built from bribery. By einstein musings, due to bad deeds of anything that can scarce capacity solved using like to think the same time we start to do it. Due to bad that more can be wild (wild).

Second, we need to anticipate the arrival changes are outside the poor control. For example is oil and food price changes in world market prices for high life, at least opportunity to get additional income, employment opportunities reduced, soaring crime rate, unemployment is soaring, and other onwards. The severity of the crush was so hard explain this time, there are now-now to tell you that these are not the most good looking for work or business. He said, that is the most good looking for loan or debt. All goods from start electronic, automotive to property, for sale by credit. Now this anything credited.

Nothing else to say more ridiculous. Create if business, trade with selling bikinlah falsehood and fantasy. Must sell. Like, bikinlah prizes sms, sms forecasts luck, sms guess words with gift house, car or cash money many millions. According to the koran investigative reports, turn enthusiasts fantasies products that are the youth of total or semi jobless unemployment, worker or non-formal level down, children not yet baligh, or housewife. At the expense of pulse around 2000 silver, whose value is not how now, they are getting the fantastic fantasies.

Back to bad the problem of changes in our natural right now, that changes are outside our control. Let alone we, the government are not promissory. How many times the president, vice president, or sudden inspection minister to do to reduce the market price, no outcome but how? The merchants complain low purchasing power. The buyer complaining about price hikes. The entrepreneurs complained low profit margin. The employee salary complained weakening received.

Past, like what anticipate? Tehniknya may we need our situation with customize. But, before that tehnik implemented, there must be the change in the head understanding. Understanding one of the fundamental changes that are necessary:

"even though we can not do that much for changing national circumstances, but we can still do a lot of changing circumstances for personal,
and that we can do it on our situation, right now. "


i. Things we need correction

correction of attitude
what is attitude? Attitude is how we express life choices. Attitude is how we create a self-posture (the inner and the birth) when dealing with matters, dealing with people, or dealing with reality. The situation in hard out there, that was the situation that hard. But, attitude to the situation that we are options. We can see that as a pressure situation which may not really exist or could see also solution as a challenge that must have the solution. Options that are not create a situation, but we.

By jung (1971), attitude is the capacity psychological readiness for action or someone how to react with certain specific to object. When we understand that behind the same situation that we will not find what can we do gap for treatment, then we will take the readiness is the readiness for lose. Otherwise, if we create understanding life is like the above, then we are readiness readiness to win or readiness for doing things positive.

So, what we need is a correction of attitude we have positive or negative attitudes. Are, whether positive or negative attitudes that, that our choice. Only, usually have a positive attitude consciously chosen and rational (based on the reasons for reason). More-more when we are in bad situation. So, your inner programlah to bring positive attitude to the situation of the poor.

Hard situations that we are living hard make. But, if we failed creating a positive attitude, then we are hard not just make situation. We would join our attitude with self complicate. Practice of life, the role of attitudes that show we determine that much more than the situation. Because of that, the motivator often reminds us: "what happens in you (what's in you) much more than what determines happen to you (what's on you)"

"there is scant everyone on differences, but that little difference is big enough to make the difference. Difference is that the attitude of some selected person. While difference that is great that whether positive or negative attitudes." (clement stone)

correction mentality
aspect mentality that we need is a correction to whom we rely chance of life? Aspects of this very important when dealing especially distress. If we are more often during this relying on others, whether it's personal, individual, group, organization, or countries, then this is the mentality needs to be corrected. During this so if we are also more often rely on the lord. Surrender our responsibility unto the lord with our lives how bad surrender to the fact. Even this needs to be corrected.

Past to whom we should need to rely on? We need to make that is the main andalan we are with all that we do business. Rely consciously here means we ourselves as a source pointed initiatives to overcome problems or for goals reached that we want. Just because not enough self-reliant, then we need to others and need god. So, rely on yourself but do need god and need someone else.

"there are living in this paradox. Usually, people like that good chance rely, instead often get chance bad. Otherwise, hard working people who rely, often getting better chance."

what is with this mean we rely academic refused resignation? Of course not all the same. Understanding by religion even if healthy, relied near here's more to the actual meaning resignation. Means are surrender resignation (mengkuasakan) affairs to god. But, resignation not be used here as a breakout (escapism), but as a business process of barrage: do something, landasi with faith, then resignation. Mental health will offer resignation.

So, by scientific, resignation context that have four, and everything back in business (rely). That is the fourth context:

* business to obtain benefits / gains,
* for defense business benefits / gains,
* business for removing hazards / problems, and
* to anticipate hazard / problem.

Means, not someone who can be called resignation choose to let problems or crush he faced. Not people who can not be called resignation raises initiative to do something for making what she wants. And on and on. So, our understanding of resignation in order correction we need any more with near reality.

Correction capability solve problems
everyone already have a problem and all people are creating the solution, but a different is where the extent that have the solution for treatment of treatment. Economic problems when we pressed, for example, stealing or selling drugs, that is the solution. Also making debt solutions. Harder work smarter or by adding improving the quality of business or business solution also.

Same-same even solutions name, but the resulting kindness will vary. One solution to problem even add gede more level. Solution to open second new problem with cook if not counted. Or we can not make solutions for the long term. Third is the solution solution solution that really.

Are all people already know that if a third solution will not easy. Free, easy or hard, actually solution that's third most feels lighter side and also the most good consequence. Experience of many people who have been successful third creating solutions, apparently they have a distinction. What i mean distinction here is the will and ability of their minds in switch (think).

Nah, linked with our desire to dodged in tough times, three is our ability to think on, namely:

* conceptual thinking ability: imagine accurately as possible what you can do for improving the situation, when your life from this location, with what was there, and can also do this now
* analytical thinking skills:-break broken shadows into your targets and plan your small-target-action or action on small that your abilities. Learn from experience yourself or others. Do not be tempted chasing the big easy but not real at the same time. Focus and desire to see opportunities, not seeing the problem and crush
* creative thinking skills: how to find as much possible in the field. Find the comparison of others, find a better tehnik for making that good or more more

hopefully useful and see you in the next section.

(to be continued part 2)

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