Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Masturbation

Masturbation is the deliberate stimulation performed on the genitals to get sexual pleasure and satisfaction. This is occasionally done by most men and women. In a study revealed that 95 percent of men and 89 percent of women reported having masturbated. This is the first sexual behavior done by most men and women, although more women than men engage in intercourse even before they had ever masturbated.

Most men who masturbate tend to do that more often than women, and they tend to express 'always' or 'usually' have an orgasm while masturbating (80: 60). This is the most common sexual behaviors number two (after intercourse), even for those who already have a regular sexual partner.

Most of the children - often after the baby - sometimes find pleasure when stimulated genitalnya organs, but do not understand this behavior as "sexual" before they enter adolescence. During adolescence, the percentage of those (both male and female) who masturbate increased rapidly, especially in men. Most people continue to masturbate in adulthood, and many do so conceived body lifetime.

Masturbation conjures up many myths about its damaging and embarrassing. This negative image could be traced as far back as the word comes from Latin, masturbare, which is a combination of two Latin words manus (hand) and stuprare (abuse), so that means "abuse by hand." Notion of shame and sin are already entrenched due servings
"Misuse" of the word has remained in the modern translation - even though medical authorities have agreed that masturbation causes no physical or mental harm.

Nor is there evidence that children who engage in self-stimulation could have celaka.Yang happens is an important source of sexual satisfaction is by some circles still responded with guilt and anxiety because of their ignorance that masturbation is a safe activity, as well as teaching religion centuries who regard it as a sinful activity. Moreover, many of us have received negative messages from our parents, or been punished when caught masturbating during childhood. Cumulative effects of these events is usually confusion and guilt that is often difficult to sort out. Moment in which masturbation became so dangerous is when he had penetrated the soul (compulsive). Compulsive masturbation - as other mental health behaviors - is a sign of psychiatric problems and need to get treatment from a psychiatrist.

So, contrary to ancient beliefs, masturbation does not lead to unbridled lust, you will not cause blindness or deafness, cause you cold, crazy, grow hair on your hands, stutter, or kill you. Masturbation is a natural expression of sexuality and is not harmful to man and woman, and a great way to experience sexual pleasure. In fact, some experts argue that masturbation could improve sexual health because it increases one's understanding will be body parts and how pleasing, building self-confidence and attitude can understand ourselves.

This knowledge can then be taken to obtain a satisfying sexual relationship in the future, either by masturbation couples together, or because they can tell each other what is most pleasing to them. This is a good idea for every couple to discuss the behavior of their masturbation and to calm the couple if at any time one of them would prefer to masturbate
than intercourse.

In some instances, masturbate together may be acceptable. Done alone or in the presence of a partner, these activities can be fun and add to mutual intimacy if it is not considered as a rejection. Like other activities, if this was not communicated well, masturbation
can be interpreted as a sign of anger, alienation, or unhappiness to the relationship being berlangsung.Dengan overcome negative stereotypes of society and personal feelings of each individual about masturbation, then the men and women could be the freedom to explore and enjoy their sexuality in private, in a way that satisfactory. One caveat: to keep getting safer sex, masturbation with a partner can be an enjoyable alternative to intercourse, as long as you avoid contact with semen or vaginal fluids your spouse, especially if you have any scratches or open wounds.

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