Thursday, August 12, 2010

HOW REMOVING LAZINESS


laziness this includes the words used most older people. We are familiar with word from small to this old. Nah, that practice to see life and theories of ada, forms and nature laziness can be explained like below:

first, there are changes lethargy triggered by external factors. Borrowing terms used philip g. Zimbardo, scott, foresman (1979) in his book psychology & life, this can be called laziness shaped "state" (state). A sudden lazy to entrepreneurs will result when the money people business for missing deceived. One student / students will be lazy when sudden lecturer / teacher favorite assignee no more teaching materials favorite. Many people who suddenly lazy when empty contents of his wallet. General, laziness shaped "state" is temporary (temporary).

Second, there are caused arising laziness mood rhythm. Mood intensity changes are feeling. Some call also with the terms of life cycle (life cycle). This such general laziness experienced by almost all human. Swot most people are dealing with any moments sometimes made her feel lazy. That distinguish problem here is not and do not ever pernahnya, but what is the second time-seconds to do that bad then. There are only daydreaming, the streets around without purpose, there are fill of reading, watching and others.

Merely as brainstorming, designing better we need special activities for dealing with this second-second such. If can, activity that we may designs se-supportive with core activities. What we can do an activity imitate ceo print media i know. Usually, the father of this tour desk-table to employees just for asking questions. So it's getting a new inspiration or picture, to her back again primary task. Although even this we can not we echoed ceo.

Third, there is that we are laziness are creating their own. Laziness such this can be called "trait", by gift. By gift here means congenital or not such that often we call "destiny someone". By gift here means we are creating, which we choose, we own the cause. Laziness permanent like this, or abadi. For we do not change that, during the same laziness were perched in ourselves. Some say, laziness by gift this no cure. Anyone not equipped miracle to cure the disease called laziness by gift this, including the prophet.

Although in theory laziness boxes that we can-boxing in such a way, but in practice often the boxes were not clearly distinguishable. Even when we want to cause-cause probe laziness someone from upstream to downstream, this will not exist stem end (so the number and so diverse).



The only way is cut eye chain. How are making with yourself as a centre (locus of control). The reason is very clear. Although there are some external factors that make our lazy, but if we are committed to resist be lazy, laziness then that temporary. But if not, laziness triggered minimum or any endowment will be too old place, can even be a label, or nature hallmark.

What makes that endowment laziness?

Logic under the normal, of course no lazy people who want. The proof, there is no happy with people who feel laziness. If so, laziness mean about that because there comes something. What is something that? Of course this lot. Based on the practice and theory, there are some things that we can make or reference guide. Between these other:

first, do not have a clear goal of life. This goal can-shaped: what do we want, what we want to earn, what we want to have. This is the target short-term, medium term or long term. There are called vision, goal (goal), or target too.

Related why is the target? Oh of course. If we already know that goal we want, we will then logic is driven to achieve it. Goal clarity regarding the power of motivation and determination someone. By anthony robbin, is actually in the world that there is no lazy people. Lazy because people do not have to be clear goals.

Other explanation to say that people who do not have a goal or purpose of life really want the very potential achieved hit what's called inner stagnation. Inner stagnant easily overcome by various diseases and poop, one of them is laziness. So, with related laziness 'developmental process'.

Second life philosophy of negative. Just like this: "than hard work is not yet rich-rich, passable employment carelessly aja", "schools doing diligent, toh was that many graduate idle", "boro-boro rizki search the halal, haram are asking hard aja god ", and other onwards.

Why that is all negative? By direction (international direction orientation), so often drag conclusions on the pattern of life that we are lazy. So, what we need is beware of him, not entirely his fault right and the content. Better think we need to learn that even harder not to be a graduate of jobless. Better think again need to work harder and smarter again so rich. Although this can not provide insurance in time at once, but a positive direction, dynamics and energy positive positive. We need to realize that sometimes there is a lot but not the right acknowledgements useful (positive).

Third, too many and too old feelings or negative allow your mind. Basically everyone never to negative thoughts raises yourself, or others state. Sometimes it is that distinguishes levels, frequency and velocity in self cleaning. Why are affecting the mind and feelings? This is definitely feel we could direct.

If we let judgment yourself against negative are too old or too much, then comes the conclusion is that negative accumulative. Like this: i am not able to, i do not can, i always feel inferior, i hesitate, my lazy, i am not happy with my self, and so forth. Thus conclusions are not we make off, but, as we are natural, very conclusion psoitif energy appears blocking.

Because that, good science teaching of religion or have advised the same. Under any circumstances or any position in our recommendations for choosing the mind and mentality of oriented thanksgiving. Thanksgiving means someone in ability mengaoptimalkan resource use for which there had been reached with performance positive ways. The potential for using think optimal as possible. Think for using the facility optimal as possible.

Because we are always negative thoughts susceptible, whether or that we create your own submissions from others, then, ideally, cleaning the thoughts and feelings that we need to do like we are never enough bath once. Read the book once not enough, not enough listening inspiring advised once, not once enough reading articles and not enough motivating yourself once. We need all the life that we feel is poop extent disturbing.

Fourth, do not want to choose the positive. For adult (read: not the child's) this is the key. Love failed, failed business, failure career, and others, is that all can trigger laziness. But, as we have seen, kemasalan in situ only temporary. Makes frequent endowment for immediate rejection is risen. If we refused self-generating, all laziness are eternal. If we choose to be fixed lazy, then there is no power can make that we shall not be lazy.

If want to use opinions bandura (www.mhnet.org, 2002), immoral behavior various and that means less (including laziness), regarding the mechanism of more than mental mistakes with someone system of shared values. For adult, all will know if it's not something that laziness positive. Despite all know this but not automatic knowledge move someone to not lazy behavior. This is more evidence that laziness mechanisms related to mental or someone's mentality. Our actions, words dietrich bonhoeffer, driven by more awareness for responsible. This also for adult pas.

If we are aware of our responsibility as students, it is unlikely student that we can be lazy. We are aware responsibility if we as employees, it is unlikely our employees that can be lazy. And on and on. Awareness is the motivation and commitment intrinsic raises (initiative and determination of in).

Fifth, learn to use less emotions blasting. Angry, not satisfied, shy, afraid, want to be praised, and so forth, including forms that are blasting the emotion. We can use this for laziness and can also drive we use to add laziness. If parents would be afraid scolded sag we can we value for use in learning push. Shy people said we can use for idle more activities. Not satisfied with the chance we can we use this day to stimulate changes.

So, although blasting is negative and positive emotions but uses given to us. If used for positive things, become positive. But if used for negative things, yes would increase negative. For people who have not arouse promissory himself from the people who have not succeed or building strong foundations personal, tehnik this more often succeed. Are just temporary duration, and easily fade can also in side potential deviations (motivation or minus negative). That because the transformation into the required equipment.

Building foundations personal

why should build the foundation personal? As we have seen, causes and triggers laziness if that many wanted (countless). Moreover, if we find that is the cause external outside ourselves. However, toh edges which will be the key here is the main equipment ourselves. This is the reason why we need to build that foundation.

Is a set of foundation personal foundations are we living in use as a basis stepped. With a strong foundation is expected easy life we do not waver or break by things that we do not want. What personal needed for the building foundations of this?

First, keep stability. Word people, living like this bike. To stability awake, must be driven, to follow or to be climbed. Stop that once the bike, then lost stability. Stabilize how life? Does this need goals and programs. As we have seen, goal that will move us to achieve it. Balance so perfect, the target that we may stacking seharmonis ourselves with the situation.

Say if your student or students an. If you make that does not match with the target existence of as your student or students, this will be in learning potential to cause laziness. Make the target, target, the programs and match with existence of your current situation.

Second, please do alignment. Terms used in this frequently business management. Understanding the effort to rectify is essentially not to step out of the track, rel, target, target, goal, vision, mission and beyond. Running business is the same as ship serving. Strong winds, waves, storm or bad weather will then ship out deflect direction of track. So back on track to exist "alignment".

So too with our lives. Many events or treat from outside the potentially trigger laziness, like for example: failed, not dealing with people who co-operative, didholimi people, and others. Too many needs, and problems that desire sometimes pressed then we make out of track. So not be all that trigger and causes of the endowment laziness then required or too old alignment. We like this again remembering our goal, our purpose, our targets, our program, and so forth.

Third, have to have a personal-urgency. Urgency insistence here or into which such deadline we ourselves to make their own (personal-imposed). To generate yourself or expel idleness, temporary that good or abadi, usually this is in order. General shortage is too old we thought and feeling laziness, like: why my lazy, lazy what makes me, how to tip-tip so as not lazy, and other but we do not make personal immediately implement-imposed.

The technique may need to give deadline or target achievements of specific. This we can start small like most of the morning wake up. Many people who can not wake up early because how many hours do not have to wake up deadlines and what will be done after the wake up morning. Because that, experts recommend timing goal in making, whether it's short term, medium or long term.

Fourth, to learning continuous (continuous learning). As we have often seen, learning that means of improving yourself what we do. This can learn for life we must be dynamic condition. There must be dynamic conditions for which the target we really strive for. It's hard to improve themselves when we live or silent statis. Dynamic delivery will the inner hard, while the inner statis even usually make our stubborn.

Fifth, to open yourself to something different or can enlightenment to inspire, motivate, cleaning the inner and turn thoughts poop. This lot shape, just like: read books or articles, lectures or listening to the story, see event, which tour educate, and others. Point is, like when asked by reporters conclusions krishnamurti, laziness that comes when the mind is a sleep! Hopefully useful.

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